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Merry HoHo
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Performing fellatio on a male is not complicated, it's easy to learn how to do it properly, so that he can have an unforgettable experience.

It doesn't matter where you want to do it, you just have to be relaxed and comfortable (both you and your partner). Suppose you're home with him, which is very comfortable. See if he is nervous or not. If he is uninhibited and even already aroused, then your job is easier. You can already start the fellatio. If he is not aroused yet, then you need to make him so. Don't rush to grab his penis in your hand or mouth. Start by releasing his tension, i.e. caress him and kiss his body. Kiss his eyes, neck, chest, and the area around his penis. If you do it the right way, i.e. not in a rush, you should start to see some reaction, provided that he is not suffering some form of impotence, or he is not very tired, or under stress.


Squeeze his penis gently down towards its bottom. Remember not to touch his upper side of the penis with your dry hand. Better not touch it at all with your hand, or only when there is enough of your saliva on his penis and your hand. To make it wet fast, don't hesitate to pour more saliva on it. Make your lips wet with your tongue prior to sucking the penis (remember: nothing dry!), and start licking it. Have imagination, lick it from the bottom to the top, or from the top to the bottom, or draw letters or lines with your tongue on his penis. Try even to take his penis in your mouth from one side, i.e. not the head but the bottom of it, and move (rub) it this way. Although he doesn't feel as much as he feels while sucking it the normal way, it will get him more aroused, and you would amaze him with this. Whenever you suck on his penis, if you can look at him, he'll like that. Don't forget to give him that look, you know …, this is the most proper moment to do that! You can now kiss the head of his penis, and take it slowly in your mouth. Tease him a bit and don't rush things, as prostitutes do when they don't want to waste their $precious$ time. Concerning the use of hand, some men don't like much to have their penis touched by a hand. Not that this is unpleasant, but they prefer only the mouth. It's also true that using only the mouth will cause a delay until an orgasm is reached and therefore is more tiring for the woman. I think that the best is to start only with your mouth, he'll love the sensation at the beginning, but after several minutes, when he'll feel like exploding if he doesn't ejaculate, use your hand while keeping the penis' head in your mouth, to speed his orgasm. Anyway, using the hand besides the mouth is surely the fastest way to achieve ejaculation and orgasm. Use only this if you are tired to stay long over him, or if you are in a hurry. It will be OK for him, but not as good as if you take your time and perform longer.



While sucking his penis, you can caress his testicles (don't press them, they are highly unpleasantly sensitive, you already know that), and even a bit his anus area, which is pleasantly sensitive, if he likes it. If he doesn't feel comfortable with touching his anus area, more because of his male pride, then don't do it. But you can touch however the area between the penis and the anus, which is pleasantly sensitive, and where the shaft originates. Normally, a slight pressure there should increase his erection. Besides caressing and massaging his testicles, you can also touch them with your fingernails or even lightly touch his pubic hair (on the testicles), and not the testicles themselves.

When sucking try also to "breathe" the penis, not too hard however, it should normally attract more blood in his penis and therefore an increased erection. You can do this without noticing it, while having 69 (mutual oral sex), when you have to keep it in your mouth (and doing nothing else), while he licks on your clit. Since your mouth is filled, you'll breathe more on your nose, and involuntarily you'll start to suck on it (while trying to get more air) that he'll almost ejaculate. You won't be out of air, but he will feel great and take it out of your mouth so that he can last longer.

Also, an important aspect is the deep throating, or how much you can take in your mouth. If you can't take much, then tell him to have this in view, otherwise you might throw up, and neither you nor him want that. If he's lying on his back, then you are in control and there is a smaller chance to have it deep inside your mouth without your acceptance. But even then, he can start pushing his penis more into your mouth. It's in the male's nature, to push back and forth until the ejaculation. Try to diminish the insertion by limiting it with your hand (in case you don't like deepthroating, of course). In case he is standing and you are sitting, then he will try more to push his penis furthermore into your mouth. Remember, he can feel great only by sucking his penis' head, he tries to push his penis more into your mouth as an impulse or instinct to make sex with your mouth as if he was making sex with your vagina. So, if you limit his ability of thrusting deply but still suck on it, then he will feel as great as while pushing it. So, choose one of these two ways of having fellatio, you suck on it and are active, and he stays passive, or you stay passive with your mouth open and he is active and makes sex to your mouth as if it was your pussy. Whatever you choose, he will like it. If you do it the passive way (you sitting on a couch or on your knees), remember this: in the moment of their climax men feel the maximum pleasure in thrusting the vagina as deep as they can (nature provided this to make sure the sperm jet goes deeper so that conception can be achieved) and they stay like that for several seconds afterwards to prolongue their intense pleasure (here nature provided this to make sure that more sperm than the first jets remains inside the vagina for the conception) - so men do this for the best type of climax: imagine what happens if he wants to do that while having his penis in your mouth (and his instinct tells hime to do that), so tell him to warn you when he is about to climax, and limit with your hand his range of thrust in the depth of your mouth.

About the moment of ejaculation, it's up to you to decide what you like. He will 100% like to ejaculate in your mouth. If you like that, then he will get the best fellatio. You can swallow, it won't happen anything to you (provided he is healthy!), but better slide the sperm from your mouth back on the penis, thus making it much more wet and easier to be (gently) rubbed with your hand only until all lovely sensations of his are gone. He will like to see you for some minutes afterwards with some remains of sperm on your lips, so if that's OK for you don' rush to wash yourself. Do it after a minute or so. If you are not comfortable with the ejaculation inside your mouth, you can opt for putting a condom on his penis prior to the ejaculation, so that when it comes in your mouth both he and you feel great (he ejaculates inside your mouth and you don't have a direct contact with his sperm). For this to happen, you have to feel comfortable with the taste of a condom - use those with different flavors, but not the ones with spermicide on them! If you don't want any ejaculation in your mouth (although he loves it!) you can choose on how to see him throwing his sperm jet. It can be on your breasts or face or inside a condom or whatever you want.

So, just remember not to use your teeth in any way, do as you like concerning climaxing in your mouth or leave him alone if he insists on what you don't like, vary your actions on his penis, have a box of tissues or a towel close to you to wipe the sperm (but take care not to wipe his penis after climaxing, since it is very sensitive and such action would lead to an unpleasant sensation), and not to use anything dry in general.

It's not so complicated to get a man to orgasm by successfully performing fellatio on him, and if you do it right, he will surely call you for more dates! Good luck
 

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First, you should know that lots of women are shy about their body. Your partner needs to be told she is beautiful and re-assured that there is nothing wrong with her body, in case she has a sort of disability or not so great body. Especially tell her you love her great legs. Make her trust you and feel comfortable with you in bed.

When you start to touch and caress her, don't go down straight to her sex, start slowly to caress her other erogenous zones of her body, and kiss her gently. Have in view her face (lips, eyes, neck, etc.), breasts, belly, and only after that her legs. If you turn her on by doing that, prior to the licking part itself, you've "won half the battle", i.e. she now wants you! Take a good look, with admiration, between her legs: it's great, isn't it? Adore her sex, because it will bring you a lot of pleasure.


Her pussy is unique. Learn to love it, in case you accidentally still don't, and tell her why you particularly like her sex. Women like to hear nice words, especially if they are true, so don't be shy and tell her what you like. Caress her sex gently, she will like it for sure, any girl likes her sex to be caressed. After you caress her pubic hair, continue with her labia, and with her inner lips. Don't forget at this time to already have your finger(s) wet, if they are not make them wet (put them into your mouth, or if she accepts it, in her mouth). Don't start to rub, even gently, with a dry finger! It's unpleasant for her, and you'll ruin the evening. Gently insert a finger or two inside her sex, you'll also see how wet she is (or not yet!) and your finger will stay wet this way. Even if you start to see her clit (which for most women is small and hidden, when not aroused), don't touch it yet. You can start by now to kiss her inner side of the legs. Don't rush with that, if you want to lick your lover's sex for HER pleasure too, and not only for yours, you have to make her reach that moment when she becomes totally aroused, just waiting for your tongue to fulfill its mission. When you kiss her (and here you can play in many ways, according to your imagination), come closer to her vulva, and start licking her inner lips and stick your tongue inside her. Think of inserting your tongue inside her as if it were your penis, and move it inside and outside. It's a sort of making sex to her with your tongue. Although she will not feel as great as when her clit is licked, it will arouse her so much that it will open your way to her big prize, the clit. Generally, licking the clit only drives her to orgasm. Take care not to touch her genital area (especially the inner side or clit) with your beard or moustache, it may be unpleasant for her; ask her if it so - if you are not freshly shaved avoid this by placing your fingers or hand between your mouth and her sex (cutting the moustache/beard's contact with her sex), and let only your tongue and lips make the oral contact. After this phase, you can now lick a bit her clit, just a bit, give her the sensation of a great achievement, that things are on the right track. Kiss very gently her clit, very gently, then start to lick on it. Not fast at all at the beginning, but in time increase the speed of your licking, you'll see she will respond to it. She will even tell you when to go faster, and not stop. It will take some time until she reaches orgasm, so you need to be good or trained in this. When you reached the phase of accelerated clit licking, don't stop or take your tongue off it. I suggest you kiss her clit and the small area around, and while sucking it (aspiring it) gently in your mouth (DON'T touch it with your teeth!) lick it. So, lick while having it aspired inside your mouth. And move your tongue with her body (i.e. move and don't break the contact of your tongue with her clit), don't fight her. If you need to take a break for your heroic tongue, do it by replacing your tongue with a finger (already wet - before resting the tongue insert your finger inside her wet vagina or inside your mouth), so that you always maintain a contact with her clit (and fast rub, as well). When you are ready to use your tongue again, replace the finger by the tongue. If you think to continue only with your finger, forget it (if you are not that exhausted, and want her to have a great time). A tongue is much better than a finger! In the meanwhile you can also spread her legs more (gently), if you want so, she will agree to that with no opposition. By no means you are allowed to stop until she reaches orgasm. Even then, continue until she tells you to stop. She can easily have a second or even third orgasm, so even if it's tough for you to go on for such a long time, she will be so greatful in the end that she'll call you for more in the future, and you also might get a good fellatio in return!

You can add to this also fingers insertion (2 is the best, not 1, not 3). Some women do not like to have fingers inserted in their vagina. If so, they will take your fingers from there with their hands. But you can try. If she doesn't remove your fingers, then she surely likes it, and this way is a better stimulation than with a tongue alone, or even than normal sex. Just make sure that your fingers are not rough, in case you have performed rough manual work in your life. It would be unpleasant for her. In such a case, better use the backside of your fingers, even for caresses on her body, not only in the vaginal area. Or instead of fingers (be it rough or piano-player type) you can use a dildo, your nose (or even forehead), or you can caress or insert a finger in her anus. Again, if she agrees. Just remember here, that once you insert a finger in her anus, don't re-insert it later in her vagina! It will cause infection for her. So, be creative, especially if you have a long term partner, diversify your sex life so both do not get bored, e.g. pour some Chantilly-type cream on her pussy (just like you would like some pudding on your penis during a fellatio), some wine or champagne, and lick both her sex and the added "ingredient". Prior to engaging in cunnilingus, you can give her a banana to suck on it erotically, so you can enjoy this scene visually. And afterwards, you can caress her body and sex with a (previously cleaned, of course) rose or feather, the options are countless, as you can see!

After she tells you to stop since all her genital area got sensitive, remember to still gently caress her breasts and body, and kiss her face. Don't do it very passionately, or she will "burn" again for a sex session, but just to make her comfortable after sex. Women need that a lot. Men don't, but women do, remember that! Women like sometimes to continue cunnilingus with intercourse, but sometimes not, and just enjoy the recent orgasm(s). She'll tell you to continue by penetrating her, if this is what she wants, if not she will not tell you this. So, in case you haven't finished, you can go on with a normal intercourse, she will normally like to continue the nice sensation (only in case her clit has not become too sensitive).

If you do all that, and "feel" the responses of your lady (encourage her prior to engaging sex to tell you what she wants and how she wants, to describe it), then you won her respect and you can consider yourself a Ph. D. graduate in oral sex upon a woman.

So, remember:
Don't use your teeth at all, don't blow into her sex, act according to her responses to your stimulation, and once you started the fast rhythm don't let go on her clit until she reaches orgasm (or multiple orgasm). Encourage her to tell you what she needs and when she's about to have an orgasm. Get some air, especially if you prefer facesitting (you lying under her, and her pussy above your mouth and tongue, even pressing a bit on them). In case of facesitting, put a pillow under your head, or your neck will get very tensed, and especially make her rub back and forth against your tongue that you keep outside (with her sex and clit). She will do it lousily at the beginning, since women are not used with this unnatural kind of motion for them, but you can move her with a hand on her butt and a hand on her pubic hair, until she gets the move or reaches orgasm. Now that you know all the theory, practise what you have just learned and drive your partner crazy. Good luck.
 

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I think we need to hire billy a nymph.
 

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SNEAKY said:
just trying to make the world a better place.
Me too but know one wants to use linux :(
 

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Got Boost? said:
Or check their grammar or context...

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:( I cant do shit right!
 

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I deeply appreciate the time and effort put into the porn novels...but,

None of it was informational to me at all? All of the "how to make a man go crazy" tips that were provided were no brainers!:D

Oh well, I guess there probably are women out there who don't know exactly how a man likes his chicken choked! Thank GOD I'm not one of em!;) :p
 

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Billy with that information I think you will make Andrew a happy man.:p
LMFAO !! Someone beat me to it, no pun intended. :D Anyways, it seems to me that Billy knows a little too much about the head job techniques. I was thinking this would be a "How-To" demonstration of how to please a woman, but I forgot there are those of you that play both sides of the field. Ah well, Santa Claus is about to go to bed, good night all ! Ho, Ho, Homos !!! :D

-Aaron
 
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