You risk losing a buddy, so is it worth the "bro's before ho's" talk? Sometimes they just need to see it for them selves. It's a good thing pussy isn't bottled, or we'd all be hooked on that stuff...
How do you tell a friend...
...that you want his girlfriend to disappear from the face of the Earth?
One of my best friends that I've known for almost 15 years is dating this chick who is literally a parasite. She's 30 (he's 25), she has a kid, no job, lives with her brother who is apparently a swinger, I'm guessing is on welfare or something, and all she does is go out and get drunk...on other peoples beer, and smoke other peoples cigarettes.
I have a feeling that if I don't talk to him about it soon, I'm going to explode on her. I actually did Sunday night, but she was drunk as hell and doesn't remember any of it. I basically asked her why she was here (in Austin visiting a friend) and that nobody invited her, and nobody wanted her there. All she's done the passed two days is leach off of other people.
...and no, she's not hot, or I'd probably be a little more tolerant of her.
One of my best friends that I've known for almost 15 years is dating this chick who is literally a parasite. She's 30 (he's 25), she has a kid, no job, lives with her brother who is apparently a swinger, I'm guessing is on welfare or something, and all she does is go out and get drunk...on other peoples beer, and smoke other peoples cigarettes.
I have a feeling that if I don't talk to him about it soon, I'm going to explode on her. I actually did Sunday night, but she was drunk as hell and doesn't remember any of it. I basically asked her why she was here (in Austin visiting a friend) and that nobody invited her, and nobody wanted her there. All she's done the passed two days is leach off of other people.
...and no, she's not hot, or I'd probably be a little more tolerant of her.
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I'm pretty sure he might feel the same way I do. He said that he didn't know that she was going until she showed up at his door. They were supposed to be on a break. He just gives into the poon very easily. Which who can blame them. I guess me being on the outside seeing that she's not hot makes it more obvious to me.You risk losing a buddy, so is it worth the "bro's before ho's" talk? Sometimes they just need to see it for them selves. It's a good thing pussy isn't bottled, or we'd all be hooked on that stuff...
He'll tire of the trim, if that's all it's about. Austin is one of my favorite towns, and her showing up unannounced would be a big buzz-killer for me.I'm pretty sure he might feel the same way I do. He said that he didn't know that she was going until she showed up at his door. They were supposed to be on a break. He just gives into the poon very easily. Which who can blame them. I guess me being on the outside seeing that she's not hot makes it more obvious to me.
This shouldnt be you risking a buddy.
He should understand your just lookin out for him. Your boy have trouble getting girls?
Really, after 15 years. Telling your buddy that hes making a bad decision, or that you think someone is bad FOR him, shouldnt be a problem.
It seems like its an issue where dude has trouble getting women maybe? And this is his first in a long time?
If thats the case, it still shouldnt matter. 15years goes a long way in my opinion. If my friends have a problem, or dont like something about someone im dating.
Id rather hear it from them, than a complete stranger.
He should understand your just lookin out for him. Your boy have trouble getting girls?
Really, after 15 years. Telling your buddy that hes making a bad decision, or that you think someone is bad FOR him, shouldnt be a problem.
It seems like its an issue where dude has trouble getting women maybe? And this is his first in a long time?
If thats the case, it still shouldnt matter. 15years goes a long way in my opinion. If my friends have a problem, or dont like something about someone im dating.
Id rather hear it from them, than a complete stranger.
I feel your pain, man. I posted a thread a while back called "Relationships gone bad".
Luckily for me, my buddy is free again and back to his old self.
Luckily for me, my buddy is free again and back to his old self.
Sounds like me not to long ago. I just got out of a BAD relationship that I was in for 2 years. I took a lot of talks from my friends but in the end I had to see it for myself.
Its worth talking to him but don't feel bad if it does not sink in the first 10 times.
Good luck to your friend
Its worth talking to him but don't feel bad if it does not sink in the first 10 times.
Good luck to your friend
Nah, he's never had trouble getting girls. Now, how long they'll put up with him is another deal. Most of his girlfriends, and I became friends at some point because they're normal. He just likes to party a lot (maintains a job and stuff though) and it seems like everybody around him is growing up a little, and he found a chick that thinks she's 21. I'll probably end up telling him next time we hang out.This shouldnt be you risking a buddy.
He should understand your just lookin out for him. Your boy have trouble getting girls?
Really, after 15 years. Telling your buddy that hes making a bad decision, or that you think someone is bad FOR him, shouldnt be a problem.
It seems like its an issue where dude has trouble getting women maybe? And this is his first in a long time?
If thats the case, it still shouldnt matter. 15years goes a long way in my opinion. If my friends have a problem, or dont like something about someone im dating.
Id rather hear it from them, than a complete stranger.
Oh yeah, you might be under the impression that I'm still in Austin, no. Got back last night and when she showed up, she showed up at his house in Bedford, right before we were all getting ready to go to Austin on Saturday afternoon. I guess she had somebody drop her off because her car wasn't there at his house. I personally would've handed her $10 and said call a cab but once again, I'm not banging her. Oh yeah, my friend said that she said that our friend Daniel invited her. I asked Daniel about it when they weren't around he said "I didn't invite her. She sent me a text saying "Are ya'll going to Austin this weekend?" and all I said was yes."
I don't know why I even care that much. I'm just bored. I'll end up telling him. Knowing him, he won't get mad at me. Who knows, if I just tell her off, he'd probably thank me for doing what he hasn't.
I have another friend who I have the same situation with. They just recently got back together for the third time. It's not so much as I don't like the girl, I think she's kinda cool to hang out with, I just don't like what she does to him.
you can talk to him all you want, but you know it won't matter. Pussy is a powerful, evil thing at times. Save your breath and let him figure it out. If it bothers you, just don't hang out with them, if he asks why, then tell him in a round about way. He is an adult, he can make his own decisions.
This thread is starting to sound eerily familiar. :thinking:I feel your pain, man. I posted a thread a while back called "Relationships gone bad".
Luckily for me, my buddy is free again and back to his old self.
I've never hesitated telling one of my friends when something like this is happening. They also know I won't bullshit them.
One time a buddy got upset, but that was when we were real young, and pussy had complete control. I understood why he felt the way he did. This chick could really fuck!! My best friend and I shared her at the time, and this mutual friend of ours was getting none consistently for a few months. We felt the need to cheer him up, but we didn't realize he had never been fucked by a dirty whore. He came around a week later when he saw her blowing me while we were out cruising the Loop. :sly:
One time a buddy got upset, but that was when we were real young, and pussy had complete control. I understood why he felt the way he did. This chick could really fuck!! My best friend and I shared her at the time, and this mutual friend of ours was getting none consistently for a few months. We felt the need to cheer him up, but we didn't realize he had never been fucked by a dirty whore. He came around a week later when he saw her blowing me while we were out cruising the Loop. :sly:
It's opinion. Personally, I'd be pissed if someone bashed my wife (who was my GF at one time) to me. I distance myself from that person a little and let it work itself out. Just cause someone tolerates you bashing their chick does not mean they are listening or care much.
For the most part this guy is definitely a bro's before ho's type dude. I don't think anybody has told him what they think about her but I've taken a general consensus and everybody seems to be on the same page as me. I probably won't see him until this weekend so I'll have time to chill out about it before saying anything.It's opinion. Personally, I'd be pissed if someone bashed my wife (who was my GF at one time) to me. I distance myself from that person a little and let it work itself out. Just cause someone tolerates you bashing their chick does not mean they are listening or care much.
I think the last thing I said to her was when she was grabbing a handful of cheetohs out of the bag I just bought and she said "Can I have one?" and I said "You've been bumming all weekend, why stop now?" Oh yeah, her talking shit also got my friend who lives in Austin, the guy we were going down there to visit jumped by three mexican dudes because she decided that after they offered her a beer, she was gonna go through their cooler and grab about six more without asking. This in turn got me thrown into a pool and ruined my phone (not a cheap phone by any means). And...looking back at it, those mexican dudes were 100% in the right. I saw them at the pool the next day and talked to them and asked what happened. The night of the fight, I just heard a bunch of noise, and when I got to the pool three dudes had just got my friend on the ground, when I pulled one of them off, they all just grabbed me and threw me in the pool. That pretty much ended everything. Total, there was about 12 of them and three of us. We're pretty lucky all that anybody got was a knot on their head and my broken phone.
Yeah, sounds like it is a bit above normal. As-in - above annoying - where it is not that safe to be hanging around with that friend while he is with her.
if he hasnt been dating her very long, then he's still in the stages where y'alls opinion matters. make it clear to him that the relationship doesnt look very promising. you might have to let him figure it out for himself. if he has a good head on his shoulders he'll see it. just be there for him. thats all i know to say......that you want his girlfriend to disappear from the face of the Earth?
One of my best friends that I've known for almost 15 years is dating this chick who is literally a parasite. She's 30 (he's 25), she has a kid, no job, lives with her brother who is apparently a swinger, I'm guessing is on welfare or something, and all she does is go out and get drunk...on other peoples beer, and smoke other peoples cigarettes.
I have a feeling that if I don't talk to him about it soon, I'm going to explode on her. I actually did Sunday night, but she was drunk as hell and doesn't remember any of it. I basically asked her why she was here (in Austin visiting a friend) and that nobody invited her, and nobody wanted her there. All she's done the passed two days is leach off of other people.
...and no, she's not hot, or I'd probably be a little more tolerant of her.
Fuck her once or twice and take pictures, problem solved.
Show both of them this thread.
Dude, this girl is dirty. She's not "ugly" but she just looks beat the hell up. I'd probably end up suffocating her with a pillow as well. Your idea while on paper might sound good in another situation just does not fit this at all.Fuck her once or twice and take pictures, problem solved.
Oh yeah, and I don't have a camera because my goddamned phone is broken.
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