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Question Did you Wait?

I was wondering if anyone here praticed abstinence until they were married. Or if you regret not waiting. I'm not trying to stir anything up but I know alot of people have alot of diffrent views on this, so I just decided to throw this topic out there.
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post #2 of 60 (permalink) Old 11-08-2004, 11:02 AM
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Thhhhhhhat's a big negatory, there, partner.
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I'll just say I screwed up once and felt horrible/depressed for a few weeks since I lost something I've had my whole life that was ment to wait for my significant other. So yes, waiting is better because it only makes that intimate moment when you are ready so much more valuable. Besides, when asked by your significant other how many times you've had sex, the answer "no" will in all likelyhood strengthen the relationship and increase it's value. I definetly regret that one night and wish I could still say "no" when asked if I've had sex before.

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I wish I had waited...because he was a jerk. He wanted to order a pizza afterwards

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hell no. You don't want to find out your partner sucks in the bedroom after you are married. Then it's too late.
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hell no. You don't want to find out your partner sucks in the bedroom after you are married. Then it's too late.
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The problem with going around having sex all the time is that when and if you get married, it will most likely take the passion out since you are so used to it and you will constantly be looking for more hardcore ways which will eventually get old after awhile since you've used so many acts up with different people. So then many will resort to watching porn to spice things up and then essentially you aren't having an intimate relationship with your partner because it has been reduced to a mere fantacy. I heard on the radio that married couples who have engaged in pre marrital sex numerous times tend to think the sex is bad after about 6 months to 2 years of marriage, this was from 2 sex therapist fyi. I guess the best way I can compare the "passion" to is alcohol. I remember the first time I got drunk, I was hooked on it because I loved the feeling and felt so passionate about getting drunk every weekend. That was a time when I was 16-17. So after a year of that, I just got bored of it and never really looked forward or enjoyed getting drunk every weekend. Now it's very uncommon for me to even go out looking to drink or even buy something for myself because I don't have the "passion" like I used to. So if you wait for that one person, the passion will last longer and be more enjoyable. Keep in mind, I'm just paraphrasing what some of the sex therapist said fyi.

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I didn't practice it before marriage but I did marry my first eventually

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post #12 of 60 (permalink) Old 11-17-2004, 09:32 PM
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I'm sooo glad it tried it first. The guy I thought was the one was so bad in bed that I had to end the relationship. The one I married it the best!

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post #13 of 60 (permalink) Old 11-18-2004, 07:07 AM
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Kinda like buying a car without a test drive...
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Everyone knows there isn't any sex after marraige, so why the hell would you wait for it? Then you're going to be a virgin for life!
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I'm sooo glad it tried it first. I the guy I thought was the one was so bad in bed that I had to end the relationship.
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post #20 of 60 (permalink) Old 11-19-2004, 03:54 PM
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I am currently waiting.

Just because you're a virgin, doesn't necessarily mean you're waiting.
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The problem with going around having sex all the time is that when and if you get married, it will most likely take the passion out since you are so used to it and you will constantly be looking for more hardcore ways which will eventually get old after awhile since you've used so many acts up with different people. So then many will resort to watching porn to spice things up and then essentially you aren't having an intimate relationship with your partner because it has been reduced to a mere fantacy. I heard on the radio that married couples who have engaged in pre marrital sex numerous times tend to think the sex is bad after about 6 months to 2 years of marriage, this was from 2 sex therapist fyi. I guess the best way I can compare the "passion" to is alcohol. I remember the first time I got drunk, I was hooked on it because I loved the feeling and felt so passionate about getting drunk every weekend. That was a time when I was 16-17. So after a year of that, I just got bored of it and never really looked forward or enjoyed getting drunk every weekend. Now it's very uncommon for me to even go out looking to drink or even buy something for myself because I don't have the "passion" like I used to. So if you wait for that one person, the passion will last longer and be more enjoyable. Keep in mind, I'm just paraphrasing what some of the sex therapist said fyi.
Well its one thing to "sleep around" but if you're in a serious relationship why not enjoy some of the benfits, i don't think that removes any of the intamacy even if it turns out not to be the "right" person...

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Well its one thing to "sleep around" but if you're in a serious relationship why not enjoy some of the benfits, i don't think that removes any of the intamacy even if it turns out not to be the "right" person...

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word! Yall that are waiting don't know what you are missing....but tonight I will be sure and get a little extra for you guys!
I hope that extra isn't the Hiv.
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oh, shut your hasn't gotten laid ass up! My girl was a virgin when I met her thank you....
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if you are waiting, keep waiting..... i know i should have waited
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If it was brand new and never been "driven" before... yes
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Just because you're a virgin, doesn't necessarily mean you're waiting.
I dont exactly understand what you are saying. I am a virgin and I am going to wait until I get married. If you are implying that I can't get a girl you are wrong.

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I have a lot of respect for someone who waits... although I find it amusing when people who wait to have "sex" are doing everything BUT physically having sex. That seems extremely hypocritical to me...

My husband dated a girl who was a "virgin", but she sucked his dick and most of his friends' dicks. haha Seems so silly...

Anyway, I didn't wait. And, I don't regret it. It sounds shallow, but if the sex isn't good the relationship isn't going to last and I want to know if the sex is good BEFOREHAND.
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You could consider it as buying a "Roller".
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how come all guys want their "number" to be so high???
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Well its one thing to "sleep around" but if you're in a serious relationship why not enjoy some of the benfits, i don't think that removes any of the intamacy even if it turns out not to be the "right" person...
It may not remove the intamacy at "first," but based on what I heard from the sex theropist and from some reading, the couples that wait tend to have a more enjoyable and passionate sex life in the longrun of marriage.

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It may not remove the intamacy at "first," but based on what I heard from the sex theropist and from some reading, the couples that wait tend to have a more enjoyable and passionate sex life in the longrun of marriage.

I disagree. My sex life with my wife was much much better the last 2 years of our 7year marriage by a looooong shot.

People are always going to want something different, no amount of planning is going to prevent that. Human instinct is to want something different. By experiencing different people you help kill that curiosity by knowing what to expect instead of always wondering if sex with another is the same, better, worse, etc.

As for really long marriages. My ex-girlfriends mom cheated on her husband after 20 years of marriage because she wanted to know what it was like to be with someone else. He had been the only one she had been with. That makes sense. Waiting does not.
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Happiness is a decision. As the song says, "it's not getting what you want, it's wanting what you've got".

What makes sense to me is not risking STD's and keeping my emotions as well as my body for my future mate.
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I didnt wait, but should have been more picky and held myself to higher standards when I choose my first... Their have been many since then, some of the good, some of them bad...

I worry about STD's. I'd rather die a quick death than a slow painful death. Most of us would agree with that...

The thing I cheerish the most, is the intimacy that my lady and I share. No, we have not done the "deed" yet, and will probably not for at least a few months... It seems to complicate things before a foundation of respect and knowlege can be established.

My vote is to wait, for how long; is up to both involved. Wait until your married? O man; thats a tough one. Marriage is very hard, and I dont know if I can do it again.
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