You will be in my prayers as well.
I have cut out pretty much all secular music in my listening. I have found 89.7 to be an awesome station (if you can get reception). When at work there are several internet stations I listen to. I don't know what kind of secular music you listen to, but there is a Christian genre that matches. It amazes me, when I listened to secular music, I never "listened" to the words. I even sang along sometimes without even knowing what I was saying, just liked the music. Now I hear just about every word and it "speaks" to me. Sorry to rant, just know where you are coming from. God bless!