I know the heartache of finding out that a family member may be HIV positive. I have a younger brother who lives an immoral lifestyle and is HIV positive.
Most of what we say or do falls on deaf ears, unless he is in trouble and needs help.
My only advice is to continue to pray for him and let him know that he is loved no matter of what he says and does. It is also important to let him know that there is a God who loves him regardless of his condition and He is waiting with open arms for his return. God did not do this to him, his lifestye that he has embraced did this to him and he needs to realize that.
I will keep him and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
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